The Courageous Mumma

relax-tools to help them manage emotions

Does your child get anxious? Can they go from 0-100 in a second?

Alison Core's full time mission is teaching children why their brains react the way to do and how to manage them. This is a tool for the here and now and for their future too. 

Send your children into with a way to manage their emotions.

Life is tough, but here are tools to regulate kids in those difficult moments... So one day, they'll be adults that regulate themselves in the tough times. Great tools for them - and for us!

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find out about parent coaching/book a chat here

ask a question or contact me; Madeleinestani@icloud.com

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How to parent THE HELPER

Do you have a child who's always supporting everyone around them and making sure everyone else is happy?

The HELPER can take their significance from what they can be for others and sometimes get their needs lost in the process.

Come and see what motivates the Enneagram Type two and hear five ways to build up their self-esteem. 

 

 

PORN - how and when to talk to our kids

Sex and relationship therapist, Emma Waring has popped back on speak insightfully and, candidly about what our children may see and how it will influence their view of sex. But most importantly, to be the voice they listen to on this important topic.

Here are some useful links 

Pick up a copy of my book, Parenting for Life

Find out information on Parent support here 

I highly recommend Emma's book , Seasons of Sex and Intimacy

 

 

 

How to parent THE IMPROVER

Do you have a child who has perfectionist tendencies? High benchmarks? (or does that describe you?) Does your child link their self-worth to their achievement?

Competency is a superpower, but when it tips into criticism of themselves or others it can harm their connection to others and their self-worth.

Come and find out five great ways to parent the improver and help them to feel worthy and to manage their inner-critic, without losing their fabulous superpowers. 

 

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Finding out more about parent-coaching: Parent Coaching

For your discounted copy of the book: The Courageous Mumma

Email me with your questions: Madeleinestani@icloud.com

Eating issues with your child - Emma Shafqat

Have you ever had a food battle with your child?

Do they struggle with meal times?  - distractions, disinterest, fussy eating, allergies...

 

This week Emma Shafqat hops on the podcast to share gems and insights around food. See her details below.

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Finding out more about parent-coaching: Parent Coaching

(on Zoom or in-person)

For your discounted copy of the book: The Courageous Mumma

Email me with your questions: Madeleinestani@icloud.com

 

To book a free call with Emma Shafqat, pop here 

or email her emma@dietitianwithadifference.co.uk

 

 

 

How to parent THE PEACEMAKER

Do you have an easy going child who is kind and happy to share, but sometimes gives in to those around them?

This week I'm looking at the Enneagram type 9: The Peacemaker. They're kind, non judgemental, happy to please and to step aside for others - a little too much at times. 

Peacemakers  and are easy to be around. They go with the flow. They're not argumentative and don't mind yielding to stronger opinions.

And whilst that seems ok on the surface - is it really? Or is something else going on? 

Come and find out what is motivating the peacemaker and how we, as parents, can make sure we hone and develop their strengths...and their weaknesses. 

Click here for....

Finding out more about parent-coaching: Parent Coaching

(on Zoom or in-person)

For your discounted copy of the book: The Courageous Mumma

For a written overview of this week's podcast: Blog

Sex therapist Emma Waring

Sex and relationship therapist, Emma Waring has hopped on this week to share many gems on that subject which is easier to 'do' than talk about!

Fortunately, she's unabashed and and speaks into the many areas that can interfere with intimacy. Emma also shares some surprising stats and helps to open the curtain on what's really going on out there, compared to what film, tv and other screen options portray. 

When you're busy raising a family it's possible that sex and relational needs are given a low priority. But emotionally healthy families are healthy in all aspects - the relationship between parents will suffer if intimacy is put on hold or if issues are avoided. 

This podcast will clear up misinformation and hopefully start some good conversations. 

Here are some useful links 

Pop to the blog for a summary of Last month's Enneagram 8

Pick up a copy of my book, Parenting for Life

Find out information on Parent support here 

I highly recommend Emma's book , Seasons of Sex and Intimacy

Further reading by Esther Perell

 

 

 

How to parent THE CHALLENGER

Do you have a child who is strong and assertive, but finds it hard to follow instruction sometimes?

 

This season I'm exploring the 9 different types on the Enneagram because it gives such insights and clues as to what motivates different character types. We're not boxing, we're being curious - understanding what makes them tick.

 

This week, I'm focussing on 'The Challenger' They're assertive, straight talking, decisive, resourcesful and upfront. But they're also loyal, honest and can be protective too.

 

There are ways to respond to this child that will result in clashes, stand-offs and disconnect. But there are also ways that can build bridges, harness their great strengths and help their super-powers not to be over-powering.

 

Here's the link to parent-coaching

Here's the link to the book, Parenting For Life - discounted for listeners

 

Parenting different character types

This week I'm chatting to Helen Calder who is a life coach using the tool of the Enneagram. She walks us through the 9 different ways that people can see the world and how to understand the perspectives of others as well as their motivations, their hurdles and their opportunities for growth.

As parents it can be transformative to understand these different characters and their motivations so that we can ensure we're using the right tools to help our children to grow.

it's a fascinating tool and I'll be using this podcast as a springboard to go on and do further podcasts on each type so that we can recognise our children (partner/friend/colleague/neighbour) in the different types and use approaches that will help our connection with them and in turn help them. It's priceless!

This is Helen's email address: hello@helencaldercoaching.co.uk

To get a copy of Parenting For Life (and a free 15 min consultation)

Link to book

To book a consultation

Link to Chat

 

Overcoming Resistance!

When our children resist our well-intentioned boundaries, it can be the beginning of the battles. What if resistance was an opportunity?

Could it be a place to grow trust and bond?  

Come and find out!

It's great to be back and welcoming you to Season II - I have so much in store for you.

I love hearing your feedback: Madeleinestani@icloud.com